Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Controlling Stress For a Healthier and Happier You

Extensive studies that have been done have proven beyond a doubt that stress is the primary cause of several ailments and diseases. This has brought about an increased awareness of the need to do even more research into how stress works to affect an individual's health and the importance of controlling stress before stress controls you. Stress essentially depresses your emotions, which in turn lowers your immunity and makes it easier for you to succumb to illness.

Different Techniques For Controlling Stress

There are a few strategies that you can use to help you get some control over your stress levels. Basically, to be able to control stress you should first be able to admit to yourself and to others that you do have emotions. You should also acknowledge the fact that stress is simply a manner in which the nervous system of your body reacts to external stimuli. Moreover, you should understand that stress in and of itself is not a real danger; it is the pent-up frustration and anger that it causes that is the most harmful.

You should realize that, for controlling stress you have to sometimes let your emotions out while also being able to keep your bad emotions under control. The most important part of controlling stress is to have the right attitude towards life and to be patient and not to let the various things in your life affect you in a negative manner. When you learn to bring your frustration and anger under control, you will be on your way to learning how to control stress, and you will no longer have to bottle up your rage or run from it.

Another very effective method of controlling stress is to put yourself in charge of your own schedule. Often, stress is caused by the need to keep to a tight schedule and the rush to get things done before deadlines. This can lead to a loss of focus and determination. If you are in such a situation, it is important for you to learn how to manage your time properly so that you are once more in control of your personal situation and are not simply reacting to the necessities of your schedule. This will be of tremendous help in bringing down your high levels of stress.

Finally, you must make a concerted effort to be happy. This, more than anything else, has been proven to be extremely therapeutic for those people suffering from high stress levels. Having a positive attitude towards life is also important; you must learn to listen to what your heart desires. If you feel like listening to music, then you should turn on your mp3 player or radio and take time to listen to the music. If you find solace in the sound of the waves crashing on the shore, then schedule time to go down to the beach. Make time to do whatever it is your heart tells you to do. Making a determined effort to indulge in your favorite pastimes is one of the most effective ways of controlling stress.

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Overcoming Agoraphobia - How a Fresh Look at Its Causes Can Be the Key to Success

If you've had trouble overcoming agoraphobia, and you feel like you've tried everything and exhausted all your options, it's possible that a simple change of perspective could be the answer.

By redefining the way you see your agoraphobia, you can change the way it affects and controls you. But before you can successfully change your perspective, you'll need to first remind yourself of how you see your agoraphobia right now, and for most people this will be a very stereotypical point of view.

And that stereotypical point of view is this: Agoraphobia is an abnormal and persistent fear of public places or open areas, especially those from which escape could be difficult or help not immediately accessible.

That's what you'll find as the definition of agoraphobia if you look it up somewhere online, and that's how you would probably define it yourself. But for many people with agoraphobia this definition is nothing more than a memorized sentence from a dictionary - it actually means nothing to them.

And because so many agoraphobia sufferers have lost touch with what their agoraphobia actually is, and what it actually means to them on a day-to-day basis, successfully overcoming it can be next to impossible.

The key to beating this problem is to redefine your agoraphobia, because only then will you see it for what it really is, and only then will you have those eureka moments when solutions suddenly begin to suggest themselves.

First of all - what agoraphobia is not (despite many experts who will tell you otherwise). Agoraphobia is not actually a fear of public places or open areas. And it's not even a fear of having a panic attack when you're outside your comfort zone; those are all symptoms of agoraphobia, but they are not agoraphobia themselves.

Agoraphobia is a defense mechanism.

It's a defense mechanism against any unknown thing you fear.

This definition goes against a lot of common and established beliefs, but if you actually take a long, hard, fresh look at what your agoraphobia means to you, I think you'll find that you agree with the "defense mechanism" idea.

To understand why agoraphobia is actually a defense mechanism, it's vital to fully understand it's true cause. And for the vast majority of people, that cause is a different, underlying panic disorder.

Many people, many experts, believe that you can experience agoraphobia completely on its own, with no other anxiety disorders or symptoms. But these people, and these experts, have usually never suffered with agoraphobia and anxiety and panic disorders themselves. And so they're not in a strong position to make such claims.

As an example, someone with generalized anxiety disorder could become increasingly more withdrawn - their constant, unjustified worrying may cause them to go deep into their "defensive shell." This person will begin to limit their movement away from their comfort zone, simply because any new experiences and interactions could potentially become new worries.

This person will begin to go to increasingly greater lengths to avoid new situations, in order to protect themselves from new situations that could become uncontrollable worries and fears.

And that's why agoraphobia is a defense mechanism.

There are many other forms of panic and anxiety disorder beside generalized anxiety disorder, and each of them has the potential to cause agoraphobia. Health anxiety (or hypochondria), social anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, panic disorder, separation anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, and even phobias.

They all have the potential to cause agoraphobia. In cases where there are apparently no other panic disorders as the underlying cause, there's often one that's gone completely unnoticed - because the agoraphobia spirals out of control and becomes all that you can focus on, the smaller things, which are often the things which cause and control the agoraphobia, are impossible to see.

That's why anyone affected by agoraphobia should look at identifying any underlying panic disorder causes, and addressing those, instead of addressing the agoraphobia directly.

This has to be a better approach - it allows sufferers to address the cause, and not the symptom. Addressing the symptom will never achieve anything, except masking the problem temporarily.

So the key to discovering a way out of your agoraphobia are these: take a fresh look at it, and don't just see the dictionary definition of it; get a fresh perspective; go hunting for the true underlying cause, which will almost certainly be some other form of anxiety disorder; treat the underlying cause, and not the superficial one.

Following a simple plan like this can work wonders.

Alex Taylor is a freelance writer/researcher from England. Having overcome a lifelong battle with anxiety and panic disorder in 2007, Alex now devotes his time to helping others recover. He achieves this via his highly-acclaimed online course, "Beat Panic Today." You can access "Beat Panic Today" free of charge by visiting Alex's website: http://www.PreventYourPanic.com

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